Vibrator
Everyone praised the soft, supple material and agreed it was extremely quiet, giving them the confidence to use it with others at home or when travelling. If you love the size and the stimulation provided by beginner bullets, but are in the market for a more sophisticated vibrator, try this lipstick-like option from We-Vibe. Lovehoney received rave reviews when it first brought out the Rose Clitoral Suction Stimulator, and it recently revisited the original design to add some bells and whistles – or to be exact, a G-spot egg.
Since the sex toy industry is unregulated, unsafe and irritating materials unfortunately run rampant. You’ll want to look for materials that are non-porous and free of phthalates (a toxic plasticizer found in some sex toys). For vibrators, usually this means silicone and ABS plastic, although some other body-safe sex toy materials include glass, stainless steel, ceramic, and properly sealed wood.
The tapered oval shape fits nicely against the vulva, with vibrations focused at the tip of the toy for clitoral stimulation. The toy is also flat enough (about 1 inch thick) for easy positioning between bodies during intercourse. The Magic Wand Rechargeable has an automatic shutoff function at the 20-minute mark, which can be disruptive if you don’t expect it (one of our testers thought the toy had run out of battery life when this happened). The manufacturer recommends letting the toy cool off after 20 minutes to prolong the motor’s life, but you can continue to use it at this point by simply turning it back on again.
While I would definitely opt for the Curvy 2+ as my number one draft pick, this one is gentle and the least aggressively vibrator-y looking vibrator I’ve ever owned. Also available in a Curvy 3+ generation, Curvy 2+ was easily my favorite of the three I tried out. It’s a pressure wave toy that also has a vibrating function — offering stimulation that ranges from buzzy and sweet to OMG WTF-intense. Size and shape are also important considerations, according to Epiphora, a sex toy reviewer who’s tried hundreds of toys in her more than fourteen years in the business. “Do your best to estimate the size and length of the shaft for your body, considering the full shaft must be inserted to achieve clitoral stimulation,” she says. A toy won’t be able to make contact with your clitoris if its shaft is too long for you to insert comfortably , so it may be best to err on the side of a shorter shaft, unless you know you love deep penetration.
By no means is it limited to ‘gotta get to work, get in, get out, quick orgasm.’ It can certainly be integrated into couple’s play,” as evidenced by some very helpful sexual position suggestions on the Womanizer website. If you have the Duo version, you can have a partner join in on the fun. You’ll have to get into positions where you can pin the toy between your bodies vibrators, with the vibrator side of the Pulse II pressed up against her clitoris. Ideal for solo sessions or partnered fun, you can get spicy with the four speeds and two pulsation modes to make for a sensual exploration of your – or your partner’s – erogenous zones. Plus, it won’t exceed a noise level of 40 decibels so no need to worry about anyone listening in.
These two-in-one toys have the benefits of a girthy, and sometimes thrusting, shaft that’s combined with the pleasure of your favorite clit stimulators. If direct stimulation (or external stimulation overall) doesn’t get you off, don’t sweat. Below are a few sex toy alternatives that are guaranteed to tempt you with a good time. This aesthetically pleasing stroker comes recommended by Danielle Bezalel, a sex educator and the creator/host of the Sex Ed With DB podcast. “The Flex’s spiral-ribbed casing has created spinning stimulation,” she explains. “Cover the air hole at the top of the item during use, and the Flex will wind and unwind, creating a spiraling movement!
